Pregnant and missing: What happened to Bethany Decker?

1. Even if you feel alone and vulnerable please do not fall "in love" with a piece of sh… specially if you have not idea if he is a piece of sh… be carefull who you allow access to your life. Pd. That guy eyes, huge red flag.

2. She was a terrible wife and mother. She played Russian roulette and it backfired on her big time. If she had of just kept her legs closed, she would still be alive. Palming her kid off to her mother no doubt, but alive

3. Ronald roldan killed her her body was never found he only got sentence to 12 and a half years due to a plead agreement rip Bethany

4. 😂 trying to make out that the home wrecker is a good woman.

5. Why don't ladies in these situations not buy any pepper spray, a blade or gun for protection. Especially if yr man is abusive

6. Ronald took a plea deal and will only serve 12.5 years for taking her life…how is that justice??? Our legal system in this country is atrocious. 12 1/2 years for taking the life of his pregnant girlfriend is insanity. He also nearly took the life of another woman. This "man" is a violent, repeat offender. When he gets out, he will go back to his old ways, and sadly more women may die at his hands. 😞My heart breaks for the child that misses his mom.

7. Why? Why would anyone stay with a violent person like this? My mind can’t comprehend this. I pray if anyone going through this get help and leave the relationship. 🙏🏾

8. I'm sorry but no involved in the child's life – mother, regardless of the age would go 3 weeks…. Then ask their own parents (elderly) to check….

9. I don't think any parent would ever be fine knowing their child is gone forever. This mother doesn't show an inkling of emotion or shed a single tear. She is sitting there and talking very nonchalantly. It's quite disturbing actually.

10. Why are there abusive men?
    Even more mind boggling, why do so many women fall for and choose clearly abusive men?

11. The cops on the Bethany decker case 😅 they can’t be real detectives? They gotta be paid actors no wonder the case went cold

12. 😢

13. No one stepped in to help this woman?!?!? Especially her mother!

14. I’m sorry but if I don’t hear from my daughter in a few days, I’m FaceTime to check on her. I can’t believe this mother tells this story and doesn’t see 3 weeks (18 days) is too long to not check on her daughter.

15. Did she really say I want to protect her. You failed to protect her when you were made aware of the abuse. I'm sorry if someone is abusing my daughter I'm going to go get her and press charges on him and put a restraing order. As a mother how do you wait 3 weeks not hearing from her.

16. What parent in their right mind goes 3 WEEKS without talking to their child/children? That’s just crazy. Especially if her mom knew she was with a person that was very possessive. Poor girl must have felt alone in the end.

17. 3 weeks???? How do you not ask around to find out when’s the last time anyone has seen her. Especially if the mother had her friends numbers

18. Y’all don’t judge a person unless you have been in their shoes I was abused mentally and physically for 5 years I pushed my whole family away because of my ex I thought I was in love i even let his family be mentally abusive to me he used to beat me up in in front of his friends and family they didn’t care

19. Always hard to understand how family always say no one hated her or she was very vibrant 😟 she wasn’t raising her child while her husband was over seas had a whole boyfriend and was pregnant 👀 I can name a few people who might dislike her it’s a tragedy but I tell my self never play with a man feelings at all 🤟 some men are just not all right

20. Does anyone else see happiness and ignorance in this mum?

21. update: Ronald, bethany’s “bf” was arrested in connection of her murder. he is set to begin trial february of 2023.

22. Borderline personality disorder/ narcissism.

23. Ladies out there once a man hits you LEAVE do not let him abuse you he will do it again !! I was 10 yrs old when I saw my 18 yr old cousin being hit by her husband my aunts gave me and my other 10 yr old cousin her baby while uncles and all the men in the family tried to take him off of my cousin in the bathroom it was scary as a 10 yr old watched in horror and as I got older I always said my father never hit me why on earth would I let some dude hit me NEVER ….

24. Karma is a btch, bet she not gonna cheat no more after that😂

25. Worst mom ever who doesn’t hear from their Daughter for 3 weeks and thinks that that is ok smh but then she allowed her daughter to cheat during her marriage so I put a lot of this on her mom. And now she wants to say she’s sad poor guy serving for the country and the Mom was allowing the daughter to live with another man smh

26. Good Life Choices Good Grace Otherwise…

27. Three weeks? Are you kidding me? I didn’t check in with my mom after 24 hours she knew something was wrong. She came all the way across country from New Jersey to California and called the hospitals until she found me.

28. I. Had. A. Ex. Like the one in this story omg that man was crazy omg

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