Online dating dangers: Would you do what she did? (1/2)

1. I did the man beat me

2. review how you are reporting this: women being "reckless", she just comes into the room after texting…women playing "love roulette"…why on earth is this a women's responsibility, problem? you are saying that actually if they don't act that way they would prevent it , as if they have to act and watch their behaviors based on the possible danger and behaviour of others…they would end up locked up in a room with no windows that way…why would you not report this as a problem of the criminals, attackers who are the predators?…stop loading the responsibility on the victim, it is the same as saying that women should not wear skirts because they tempt men and they get raped…I was not expecting at all the loaded way of your reporting…much work to be done stil indeed

3. When a person does things in an intelligent way, it won't eliminate all danger, however it will lower the chances of something bad happening.

   NEVER meet someone in a hotel room or a domicile.
   ALWAYS meet in a public place during daylight hours.
   Write down as much information as you can, if you are going to meet someone in a public place during daylight hours post the information you have about the person in an easily seen location in your home, such as the refrigerator or a bathroom mirror.
   Also, leave a copy of it in your car.
   ALWAYS take separate cars, insist on this.

   Online dating is usually not dating. Married people or otherwise committed people use it to cheat on their partners.
   Many people use it for sex, any sex they can get. In person, cyber, phone. Not an in-person date.
   The dating sites (such a misnomer) don't screen the profiles. The profiles can be posted by anyone for any purpose. It's less of a smorgasbord for scammers, now, it used to be much more profitable for them

4. I never gave a man my address, always met in a public place, and I got to know someone over time which helped but I didn't really do enough background checks and I didn't tell anyone where I was. Lesson learned. I suppose many of us women don't think how manipulative men can be or how toxic they can be. Now I assume all men are killers and attackers and I get all stuff about them beforehand and I never date men with kids, that is another red flag. I absolutely don't trust men at all. Far too many women are getting killed by them, I don't care if they get upset if I don't want to see them asap or if I ask too many questions #london #uk

5. Alot women ask for it fair and simple . Serves em right .

6. In 1996 I came very close to being that woman. I was almost lured to Toronto Ontario, the guy bought me a plane ticket and gave me money. Had I not missed that flight I could have easily been a statistic. I was young and dumb and to think that would have ended horribly

7. Young women, do you want to be raped, robbed, and murdered? Then date online, meet strangers at their apartments or in a hotel room, etc. Don't bring weapons for self-defense. Tip: date guys you know personally.

8. Imagine if two kidnappers meet eachother 🤣🤣

9. It's no more dangerous than meeting someone at a bar or a bookshop or…anywhere. At the end of the day, when you meet someone new, even if you date them a few times before being alone with them, they can be a crazy murderer. Doesn't matter where you meet them.

10. Wow! as a general I don't even stay alone in a public place alone with someone if it's enclosed. I'm just that type of girl that stays aware about everything and makes sure I have the option of avoiding it.

11. One time as I was driving to a school dance, I saw some girl walking along the end of the freeway ramps, I assume she was trying to meet some online boyfriend, and my mom told me all of the dangers of online dating, and she also said if I want to take any girl out, I’ll have to present myself in front of her family(or she’ll come to me and vise versa) and say exactly what I plan to do that night

12. Grinder??? That’s not for straight woman

13. i like how he was swiping left hahahaha they are just there to get girls to play into the experiment yet hes still like nope lol

14. I didn’t like online shopping or online dating at all . Nor trust everyone who I couldn’t see the real motive behind the nice face 👹👺💀🤡🤥 lol
    Even I am young tho
    Facebook or YouTube is not dangerous coz I do believe there are people who do theirs legitimate business ( job ) if it personal than it unwise to posts everything whatever I wanted
    The ways I wanted
    How I wanted … or when I wanted
    have knowledge is good . Many people have great knowledge. But wisdom is the best . Wisdom teach you how to use the knowledge in the right way.
    And it’s sooooooooo hard to find wisdom, life time learning tho
    I feel sorry for those people who were become the victims

15. One year later neither me, nor my bf are murdered or raped by each other. We met on tinder. But always set up few first dates in public. But internet is not at fault. A perv will find a way anyway. People sometimes act like there was no rapes and murders before dating sites. App is not at fault, it's the twisted people and you can find them anyway – in a bar, out on a street, every psycho is someone's neighbor, friend etc. And of course with a big dose of stupidity from the people (man or women) who agree to meet in a private place.

16. Cause Their looking for a booty call

17. Tinder is especially easy to fake. It's just a photo.

    Facebook is a better way to see if someone's actually legit.

18. Narrator sounds totally ridiculous with that goofy ass accent

19. People go to a bar and then go to someone’s house. What’s the difference

20. And this is exactly why I will never do online dating. It's too dangerous.

21. This is mean… You get a girl all excited about a date, make her pay travel costs, only to let her find out there's no date.

22. Ben Affleck undercover?….😍

23. Nothing but catfish on all those apps

24. Come on, if she went to his hotel then maybe she wasn't looking for love. Some of us just want to hook up also. Still people need to be careful

25. Welcome to a world where women get blame for getting kidnap…

26. If someone picks you up take a photo of their lic plate and send it to a friend that's what I do. Also send a link to their profile

27. This is why if you want to meet the person you’re dating online, you should go out on a date in public and in the morning

28. Scary shit .

29. Do not go on these sites 😩😰😰

30. Dude, ANY BODY can kill you. My childs dad murdered a women, he has NO BACKGROUND, no mental illness that we knew of, he was a manager in a store for 4 years, he had a house a car, lived a very normal life, and i MET HIM IN PERSON first. it doesnt matter who your meeting, how your meeting, you can never trust anybody always just be prepared to defend yourself and go live your life!

31. My question is how pathetic an existence does ANYONE have to lead to resort to online dating in the first place? That's terrible!

32. THATS IS RIGHT PEOPLE LETS FIGHT AGAINST SICKOS!

33. This is the dumbest shit I’ve ever seen

34. Well, hopefully she won't be talked about by family members on here; say, a year from now.

35. Grinder?! LMAO sure females are totally on there ahaha

36. Women are very aware and some want sex bruh lmao

37. They go online because they want to get laid.

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