One woman’s fight to keep herself safe from a man she’s afraid is so obsessed with her that he may one day kill her. And when you hear the details, you may wonder, how is this guy not locked up for good?
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This is sad what happened to this beautiful girl, jay is exactly like my ex sam, he is korean , but after what sam did to me it made me not trust him anymore. he would follow me over the internet and my phone but not in person thank god. Emma might suffer PTSD For the rest of her life, and jay is not even cute. thank god this man is not a killer but if he got away with it , he would be. sam has been arrested for a crime before but i am not sure what type of crime it was. i hope emma finds a new boyfriend but it will take her a long time before she can trust men again regardless if asian.
He's from China, and his brain is warped. There, women have no rights, no voice. No opinions. Men are superior. If he says you belong to him, that's it..you belong to him. And NOTHING will stop him. He decided that she was the one he wanted.
that interviewer is so overbronzed/overbaked she looks like a yamanba ganguro chick
This is the first time I've seen an academic scholar stalker Lmao
Doesn't that guy know how creepy what he's doing to the poor girl is, why she leave her alone?
People with high IQ, have serious social issues! 🤷
WHAT happened to Emma ??
Is she ok (I hope)??❤
The whole country of USA and China are a joke. 🤣
0:46 I live in Illinois…
How the hell did he get her Cell number? He is completely unstable!
nothing one oz of metal can not cure.
imo
God bless this detective, that took this seriously.
Also what in the first place got him to thing he cand stalk bullie or do whatever he feels like to get a female just to realize he's there like bro f off they don't want you mo mo chin ping 😂🤣😜
Someone please tell me I'm not the only one when looking at pings face I see his facial features especially eyes are way out of alignment and how does he see well when 90% of the time their 80% closed ??? 😳🤔🤔
The thought of that guy being an anesthesiologist and having people's lives in his hands is absolutely terrifying.
Did he say he wanted to record them having sex and would show to their kids?!
Poor guy will never get any pussy lol 😆
His last name is ding but it never donged on him to stop what he was doing
This story blows my mind, nothing could be done, today the whole school system protects trans being bullied, this is same thing. I would sue everyone involved.
The way he talks- you can tell there’s something off.. LOL
Just give him a chance
I think this Jay person should be in a class to learn about how stalking affects people and how they really really really ruin peoples lives.
That’s what I think he should be doing before he even thinks of what becoming an anaesthesiologist
He sounds like the guy that would kill or ruin his fellow employees lives not even the full year of starting his career, I’d never hire him to become anything like that because if he gets too close to somebody oh my God I can see that if he got hired to do that job I can tell you he won’t even get to the first year of becoming An anaesthesiologist before somebody complains about him so he won’t get very far
It’s like why waste all that time you know? Why go through all that schooling when somebody will possibly complain about you not even a year into your job? That makes no sense to me whatsoever you know
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I think there is a love disorder he thinks the girl is in love with him
YOUR SON ISN'T NAIVE, HE'S A SICK MONSTER..THEN, INVOLVING JESUS IN HIS PERVERTED THOUGHTS..SICK..
Smh
So watching this, I see they were friends on Facebook and had her cell number. Wtf.
whoever is reading this, GET RIGHT WITH GOD! GOD IS SO AMAZING! TRUST GOD! HAVE FAITH! GOD BLESS!
Only pathologist he would make is psychopatholigist.
He's so disgusting. This guy needs to be put away he's a danger to every female his parents should had sent him away.
Her dad seems to be the mother in the family = a pussy
Discusting
If he was my son I would take his electronics for life so he couldn’t message her and get him some help
There’s nothing worse than a creepy small man who won’t go away. An autistic academic creepy man who thinks he’s worthy of the hottest, smartest girl. Go away creep 🤮🤤
I mean the comment about global warming is enough to let anyone know he is a lunatic
Another natural reaction from betrayal or hurt is sometimes people don’t even trust the friends the other friends that they have any might end up being mean to them, so I’m afraid of going back to bowling and being mean or saying something horrible to carry, Annabel, Joe, Eric, and a couple other people
Cuss words do hurt a friendship and since I never experienced that before it was all a shock to me here. So how do I ever treat my other friend with respect and having a normal conversation with them?
I have heard of one person destroying all family ripping a family apart because of words that were said maybe not like the words he used but what words can cause disfunction between friends and or family members
What you have to say to yourself is” This person was being a jerk he Or she is not a friend at all, That doesn’t mean my other friends will do the same thing everybody’s different just because one jack ass over son just treated me like that doesn’t mean all my other friends Will treat me like that,”.
People have to think positive otherwise the only reason why you have disfunctions between friends and or family members is because you let it cause distraction and hate no matter how bad people say things even if it’s just like I dislike you I prefer not to be around you anymore doesn’t mean you’re other friends Will say that
Everybody’s different so I gotta go in bowling thinking that way
No because I haven’t seen them for a long long long time. I think the following them around everywhere in the obsession that I have to be around them all the time after not being able to for so long I’m afraid it might come back even worse than before and I think that’s what’s going to happen with everybody not just me but everybody who has mental disorders or illnesses weather than you know and can control it or not it’s just a thought not being able to see them for so long I think everybody at bowling is going to be in the same boat I think you’re all gonna be stuck together like glue And hugging each other and they are gonna be so happy though I don’t think they ARE gonna follow them around everywhere they go but they may have a talk like how are you? how was your Time? how Has it been?I haven’t seen you in ages that kind of thing, but I don’t think that’ll ever see anybody’s talking stalking each other just me I’m hoping that my Zoloft makes it so now I don’t do that as much if I do I would realize it and then I’ll be able to say oops can’t do that that will be a test for me I’m not worried about other people are there but it’s just me so yeah I’m excited to put on the for the test and I’m also nervous
Because when the virus first started but maybe A year and a half ago now my best friend said or accuse me of saying that his mother is being abusive or someone in the family is hurting him and abusing him which wasn’t true, I mean I might have asked his mother if anyone in his family was hurting him because of the way he was acting on the phone with me he was screaming at me on the phone so I was concerned somebody was hurting him for being mean to him because i know people act out when when they’re bullied or when somebody’s being rude and belligerent to them it’s just a natural emotion being hurt. So I asked his mother if somebody was being mean or hurting him in his home and I said to her because he said one of his cousins wasn’t making the right choices but that’s all he said, I never ever ever said” You No want Michelle you are so mean and I think you’re Being mean To Steven I think you’re being so nasty to him I think you’re the worst parent in the world”
Heck no I never ever ever said that. I was concerned that maybe he was being hurt so I asked if everything in his family was going OK and if everybody was treating him all right, but I never said that about his mother
You know what I thought that she was a really nice lady and Steven and had a really good mom that loves him deeply and she did everything To help him and protect Him like every parent should, so I felt hurt and betrayed and because coronavirus was like a few months into coronavirus I just was like you” do you know what I’m tired of this crap, I posted on Instagram that we are done that everything I did for him buying him lunches and I took him to hockey game and I bought a beer for him even when he couldn’t have it I still bought it Four him because I wanted to
And I bought him gifts for like Christmas and his birthday I really did a lot for him because he was my friend and that we’re friends do for each other, I guess I should’ve realized this and I never did for many many many years but now I think about it I never got anything in return like I would always offered by him stuff but he never really offered to buy anything for me not that I would take it anyway but it still would be nice and that’s what true friendships or a boat is you give where are you bye friends what they want a next time” hey yesterday a week ago you bought me lunch this time it’s my turn to buy you lunch or whatever you want your choice”
That’s what true friendships is about but because I thought he didn’t have enough money he didn’t have a home like we do I mean like you did live in a little apartment but boy I never seen department so small in my life, so I didn’t expect anything in return I mean like how can you specked something in return for a friend who doesn’t have much? That is just not fair you can’t do that and so I just bought him whatever he wanted. And to this day I don’t know what happened I still don’t know I don’t know if he’s ever going to say sorry for what happened and because he’s not the type of guy I think he would be too nervous to know what I would say and trust me if I thought one of my friends had that and I told him say you posted this online and said this about my family or one of my other friends but I was Wrong and mistaken, I probably be shaking in my boots just Confronting my friend again I would be so scared to say yeah I screwed up it was not what I thought it was somebody else who said that and they were using your picture on social media to make it look like it was you. It takes a lot of guts to say to admit that and to go to the person and make everything right again I mean it’s scary think you’ve been so stupid and I agree it is scary do I have to admit when you’re wrong because you know you did look pretty foolish for accusing friend of doing something they haven’t meanwhile it could’ve been somebody else pretending to be you or even them and you became an enemy you were best friends and now you’re rivals because of somebody else, I have heard of that happening and I have felt that way I really have
And for me I am a very sociable person I will admit I was wrong when I am wrong, but I still think going up to somebody and or messaging them saying” yeah I was stupid”sometimes it’s better just to not say anything, But honesty is the best thing ever if you can go up to that person or even message him on Facebook or Instagram whatever Social media site you have, It’s good to send them a private message if you are wrong because it means that you’re a big person and and you’re a honest person
Honesty is better than not trying hard to make everything right again whether it’s stalking somebody and harassing them it’s not too late to get help and I
person
I know I can be a pain to people and make them feel Uncomfortable. I recently just got put on Zoloft because I told my psychiatrist about these issues, so I made sure that I had the help that I needed by my words I emailed them and I Let him know what was going on in my head and what I was doing what I saw and I even mentioned to him that couple years ago I was at bowling and I used to have a obsession with this lady at bowling and I used to follow around everywhere and I was really close to her like almost touching her back she’d go somewhere and I’d be right there right behind her stuck to her like glue, one would think I was her puppy dog because that’s what a dog does is follow you around everywhere and sometimes it’s like stop that’s enough ha ha ha ha. So yeah I know how it feels because I can’t say I don’t know what it’s like to make someone feel uncomfortable and awkward I know exactly what it’s like to be obsessed and have fantasies about some thing or someone because of their personality or maybe it’s her backstory with my friend at bowling it was her backstory her childhood that really caught me to be obsessed with her,
Because she was a victim of abusive parents and the ability to make the choice even though she finds it hard to trust people just her ability to try to look past that and see that there’s a good out there and the ability just to except everyone, but I think that’s what really made me obsessed with her
Which is OK in all but I didn’t really have a follow her around everywhere like that and make her feel awkward creeped out, that was never my intentions it was just in the moment now I’m better I don’t have near the compulsive issues that I have been having in the past well how could we were we were never been around anybody for two years I don’t think anybody would have those sort of compulsive things like that because we couldn’t we couldn’t see anybody for two years if anybody were to follow somebody around to close I can assure you coronavirus would love them coronavirus would love to eat away at them Serves them right to
I have stocked my friends in the past. I could still have that potential to follow people like this like a person who I really like I still have a habit I think the following them over the place. And when my friends give me their number sometimes I call little bit too much and I don’t realize it,
When I do realize it or when somebody reminds me” OK Leigh you were getting way too much is bothering that person I think you need to go somewhere else maybe go get your shoes on or get ready you’re really bothering that person”
I feel really really really bad about it I don’t want people to feel uncomfortable around me I want people to come to me or at least talk to me if I or they have a problem I want to be a friend that I can help them or they can help me.
As I was saying yesterday I have a very very very hard time to control my feelings and emotions, like when I’m happy I get super excited I just don’t get happy super excited and I talk like 100 miles an hour, what I’m sad they could just be like regular sad feelings but people who don’t know me would think someone died in a car accident in the most violent way ever,
And when I’m angry I just don’t get angry I go into a rage. I have to sense of justice where I want people like this guy to die in the most painful way ever. And I have zero control over my thoughts and feelings. Unlike most people to get in trouble with the law I’d never ever ever fake pee mentally ill or mimic it I don’t know how anybody can do that it’s disgusting for the people that do have mental illnesses or disorders that really can’t control stalking and harassing. Because there are people in this world that
Really do you have crazy obsession about having somebody they can’t have and they end up just doing that in the moment. Yet people like him that end up plan to do something like that stalking harassing you name it they make it look bad for the people that can’t and don’t have control over those issues. And they go to jail because the judge doesn’t believe them how could they? when you get people like him Who do a perfectly good job at pretending to be mentally ill or have some kind of mental disorder and doesn’t really good job at mimicking it.
How would any of the judges know that a person is mentally or not?
How would they believe the next person that gets in trouble that he really is mentally ill or mentally challenged in anyway?
People make it bad for people that actually can’t control what they put on their social media, like me for sample I see stuff and I still do say stuff in the moment that I don’t mean,
I know he does know what he’s doing and I do believe anyone can ask for help if they just sit there and think about it. Because I also have mental disorders and many many many problems. I have autism, obsessive compulsive disorder, and a chromosome 10 defect I missing part of my chromosome when I was a baby I was born with those problems and even though I get violent and I still have the feeling of when I see people or someone being rude or ignorant I feel like I need to make them feel the same pain they put other people in so I feel it’s in my right now to go to the person and get their face and start swearing and cursing and yelling at them calling them names things like that and then going like how do you like it.
Although he might have problems that makes people think there’s no excuse for because in my heart there’s absolutely no excuse for that kind of behaviour
I’m not saying he has a mental illness and that makes people di things like that.
Heck no because there are doctors and school counseling people can go to if they have those thoughts
And they can get help if they don’t have anyone who will listen to them.
There is no need to do anything like this no matter if your mentally challenged or ill
Absolutely nothing people can say to God to make it ok for him to make this lady feel scared. So if you can’t convince God that what he’s doing is right
People like him can’t convince other people that” hey I my mental illness causes me to do crazy things and say not good things, it also causes me to stalk people too”
It’s like really buddy really now
Why not try to get help then instead of making people miserable every day? Ok like geese go see a councilor someone that can help you with that. There’s no reason to do anything like that
I mean what else would make a person do that to someone? Even if they did have schizophrenia or Bipolar, or any mental disorders or Illness
People that have those issues do have those thoughts and feels actually like him
I have seen people on Facebook groups talking about being lonely and feeling scared that their husbands, girlfriends, or wives are going to leave them
But they don’t get on Facebook and start doing things like that. Or Instagram or whatever social media site he’s on
You have to be bothered by something for people to act out like that. I don’t know know any other reason for someone to do something like that
That’s just wrong it’s completely inappropriate and sickening
People that feel lonely and scared of someone or something do say stuff that regular people don’t say.
Not very many but I know it happens
By the things he’s saying it sounds like maybe he’s lonely or he’s sad
He’s definitely bothered by someone or something.
I get it she's probably as amazing as he thinks she is.
But this is torture ,she will never get that time back.
if i was her dad this dude is dead…. i hate to say this but the laws sometime is so stupid!. Seem like the laws always on the stalker criminals….